has many through attributes challenge

I'm facing a challenge that I can't solve (tried multiple times and solved lots of errors but still ...)

Basically I have 3 models connected by a many-to-many through association:

class Student < ActiveRecord::Base
 has_many :likes, :dependent => :destroy
 has_many :recruiters, :through => :likes
 accepts_nested_attributes_for :likes, :allow_destroy => true
end

class Recruiter < ActiveRecord::Base
  has_many :likes 
  has_many :students, through: :likes
end

class Like < ActiveRecord::Base
  belongs_to :student
  belongs_to :recruiter
  accepts_nested_attributes_for :student
end

Now students should be able to tell recruiters if they can contact the student.

the view (students/show.html.erb) <--

So each student can like multiple recruiters and each recruiter can be liked by one or more students. A like has an attribute :match wich is a boolean. When this attribute is true I want to be able to list all students who like (:match = true) a certain recruiter.

This is the form I'm using to pass the :match attribute:

<div class="show">
<%= form_for [@student,@like]  do |f| %>
  <%= f.fields_for :likes do |p| %>
    <%= f.check_box :match %>
    <%= f.hidden_field :recruiter_id, :value => '20' %>
  <%end%><br>
      <%= f.submit "Let them contact me!" , class:"btn btn-primary" %> <br>
<% end %>

So if a student checks the checkbox it should create a record in the database with an updated like for the current student. But that's not happening :). It only creates a NEW record only with a :student_id (so without a :recruiter_id and :match)

Records in database <---

This is how my controllers look like:

class StudentsController < ApplicationController
  def show
    @student = Student.find(params[:id])
    @like = Like.new
  end
end

and

class LikesController < ApplicationController
before_action :find_student, only: [:new, :create, :update, :edit]

  def new
  end

  def create
    @student = Student.find(params[:student_id])
    @like = @student.likes.build(like_params)
    if @like.save
      redirect_to student_path(@student)
    else
      render :show
    end
  end

  private

  def like_params
    params.require(:like).permit(likes_attributes: [ :id, :match, :student_id, :recruiter_id])
  end

  def find_student
    @student = Student.find(params[:student_id])
  end
end

Anyone an idea on how to save the :recruiter_id and :match attribute to the database ?