How to show custom actionbar when check checkbox on the listview?

I have one listview that contain a text view and a checkbox in lines. I want to show custom actionbar when checkbox checked in listview. I wrote the one xml file type of menu like this:

<?xml version="1.0" encoding="utf-8"?>
<menu xmlns:android="http://ift.tt/nIICcg" >

    <item
        android:id="@+id/delete"
        android:title="actionbar"
        android:icon="@drawable/recycle"/>

</menu>

So I use for custom listview this codes:

private class Adapter_collection extends ArrayAdapter<String> {

    public Adapter_collection(Context context, int resource, int textViewResourceId,
            String[] name_collection_tbl_collection) {
        super(context, resource, textViewResourceId, name_collection_tbl_collection);
    }

    @Override
    public View getView(int position, View convertView, ViewGroup parent) {

        LayoutInflater inflater = (LayoutInflater) getSystemService(Context.LAYOUT_INFLATER_SERVICE);
        View row = inflater.inflate(R.layout.listview_items, parent, false);
        TextView txt_item_list_collection = (TextView)row.findViewById(R.id.textView_Item_Listview);
        CheckBox checkBox=(CheckBox)row.findViewById(R.id.checkBox_Item_Listview);

        checkBox.setTag(position);
        checkBox.setOnCheckedChangeListener(new OnCheckedChangeListener() {         
            @Override
            public void onCheckedChanged(CompoundButton buttonView, boolean isChecked ) {   
                //list_collections.setChoiceMode(ListView.CHOICE_MODE_MULTIPLE_MODAL);

                    Toast.makeText(getApplicationContext(), buttonView.getTag().toString() , Toast.LENGTH_SHORT).show();        
            }
        });
        txt_item_list_collection.setText(name_collection_tbl_collection[position]);
        return row;
    }

}

I don't change the onCreateOptionsMenu()